Here we are after finishing the race. It was the first race for most of them and I can't believe how good they did. It was fun being there with them. After the race we came home to get the turkey in the oven. The first thing I did after getting home was eat an oreo, so even though I did exercise that morning calories in definitely exceeded calories out on Thanksgiving day. I made my second Thanksgiving turkey. Yum! It turned out really good. Still took about 1 1/2 hours longer than we were expecting for it to cook. Same as last year. I'll just need to remember that next year. Sorry, didn't take any pictures. So we had a good meal and talked about things we are grateful for. That evening we went to visit Jerry's family. It was good going over there, but a little more somber than other years. Jerry's uncle Larry, his dad's brother, passed away on Wednesday afternoon. He had been in the hospital for several weeks already, but it seemed that he was starting to get better, but because of excessive scarring in the lungs it made it almost impossible for him to breathe, and he died. We know he's happy and pain free, but still, even though he'd been sick, it was a shock, and it's sad. It's been sweet to see Hayden pray for Uncle Larry as he was in the hospital, even though we haven't really spent that much time with Larry and his family. Hayden doesn't really know him other than through pictures of seeing him at Sydney's blessing, but he knows we love him and he's part of our family. After he died we explained to Hayden, but since this is our first experience dealing with death of a family member with our kids we weren't sure how much he'd understand. But it was touching to hear Hayden pray for Uncle Larry's family last night. I feel for Jerry's Aunt Ginger and their family, and for Jerry's dad, losing his younger brother. I can't begin to imagine how they are feeling. It makes me so grateful, this Thanksgiving, for the temple and that through the blessings of the temple we are sealed to our families forever, even after death. What an amazing promise that is.
So, Thursday night we were beat, and I went to bed at 9:45!!! I don't think that has happened since I was 10! But I wanted to battle the crowds for Black Friday, and left the house at 1:45 to go stand in line at Old Navy to get a free Lego Rock Band game, but unfortunately I could have slept an extra 1 1/2 hours because I was too far back in line to get the free game. Bummer. I still did shopping at several other stores though and it was still kind of fun being out in the craziness. I know, I'm weird, but it's similar to the whole racing atmosphere thing, I kinda like the crazy black Friday atmosphere - well, when I don't hear people yelling and angry. It was all worth it after traveling to Target, waiting in line for 2 hours for one item, planning to do a price match, like they had advertised they would, then being told in the small print I wouldn't be allowed to price match Black Friday sale prices, then going to Walmart, finding the item I wanted was sold out already, and then heading to another Walmart just to try one more time and I GOT THE VERY LAST ONE!! I just about kissed the guy at the final Walmart! Then I headed home at around 8:00.
That evening we told the kids we would go bowling as a family, to make it a special, fun day. We went to the bowling alley and they said that there was a tournament that day and we wouldn't be able to bowl till 9:00 pm. The kids were sad, but we decided we'd go to a movie instead and that made the kids happy. So we walked all through the casino to the movie theater to see that there are really no good family movies out right now. At least not for families with small kids. Well, that alien one, but if I'm going to pay money, I want to enjoy the movie. So we left with devastated kids. So we had to do something fun with the kids to make it ok that we didn't go bowling or to a movie. So we watched a movie at home, in a tent. At first, Jerry thought I was talking about making a fort with blankets and that, but no, I meant setting up the camping tent. He assured me I was crazy. The kids loved it. Probably a little too much because they had a hard time settling down to actually watch the movie, but it was still really fun.

So, Saturday we figured we'd give bowling one more try. We went to the bowling alley again, and found out the tournament that was going on on Friday is part of a whole week of tournaments. So we couldn't bowl AGAIN! We did end up going bowling at another bowling alley across town though because we'd had our hearts set on it. It was so fun. The kids get so into it.
So, now the weekend is coming to a close, and I guess I'll deal with it. But tonight is the First Christmas Advent, (post on this to come later)so there is great things to look forward to. And I LOVE this season so maybe I'll be able to handle Jerry going back to work tomorrow. :)































